Isn't Eöl supposed to despise Aredhel?

[Landroval]

Rape is contrary to Elf nature

Originally Posted by Quendi and Eldar

They are not easily deceived by their own kind; and their spirits being masters of their bodies, they are seldom swayed by the desires of the body only, but are by nature continent and steadfast.

The text states that :"it is not said that Aredhel was wholly unwilling, nor that her life in Nan Elmoth was hateful to her for many years" - I would say this is even more true when it came to intimate relations. There is a quote in HoME X, IIRC, where it states that an elf would leave his body when aggressed like this.