the advice thread.

LuthienTinuviel · 02-14-2003, 11:02 PM

ask a question, and recive an answer form the vast well of knowledge that is entmoot.

here's my querey:

there is a nice boy at my school, he is a pretty good friend, and eariler this year we almost had a thing, but then didn't see each other for a while, now im in another class with him, and.. hmm.. should i call him to say happy v-day?

lord knows ive got nothing else to do besides this.

Coney · 02-14-2003, 11:10 PM

Yes you should.........shy kids get no soup

BeardofPants · 02-14-2003, 11:12 PM

Life is short: go for it.

My problem: should I eat that last bit of chocolate, or torture my boyfriend?

Coney · 02-14-2003, 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BeardofPants
Life is short: go for it.

My problem: should I eat that last bit of chocolate, or torture my boyfriend?

Why not both?

Lizra · 02-14-2003, 11:16 PM

Can't you make him call you?

Eat the chocolate! I am.

LuthienTinuviel · 02-14-2003, 11:53 PM

ya, your right, i should call him, but i was so busy trying to track down BoP's pic, that i forgot about this thread, and now it's mucho late-o to call him.

hahah

Andúril · 02-15-2003, 04:51 AM

This is not the thread for me.

Lady of Rohan · 02-15-2003, 08:33 AM

Why Anduril? Because your to wise to need advice?

Andúril · 02-15-2003, 08:50 AM

Quote:

Lady of Rohan:
Why Anduril? Because your to wise to need advice?

No, because of all people I should not be the one to give advice. And, I don't need advice (wisdom, etc.).

Artanis · 02-15-2003, 10:28 AM

Advice to Andúril (he needs it): If this is not the thread for you, then don't post in it

Andúril · 02-15-2003, 10:35 AM

Silence, mortal!

***Sister Golden Hair*** · 02-15-2003, 10:41 AM

Quote:

Advice is a dangerous gift even from the wise to the wise and all courses may run ill.

From the Fellowship of the Ring- Gildor Inglorion to Frodo.

Artanis · 02-15-2003, 10:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Andúril
Silence, mortal!

*evil grin*

Hanza · 02-15-2003, 11:33 AM

OK i have a problem: There is this guy who i know really fancies me(has told 2 of friends) he has tried to get my msn, fone number, email .etc. Problem is i dont like him. How can i tell him and what should i do?

Lizra · 02-15-2003, 02:05 PM

Tell those two friends he told, to tell him!

Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn · 02-15-2003, 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hanza
OK i have a problem: There is this guy who i know really fancies me(has told 2 of friends) he has tried to get my msn, fone number, email .etc. Problem is i dont like him. How can i tell him and what should i do?

well. if he ever asks you out or anything...say no..or do what lizra said

Spock · 02-15-2003, 04:03 PM

"Life's a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death"

Sylvee Estel · 02-15-2003, 05:28 PM

I have a problem... I like this guy, and I have for a while now. I thought for a while that he might like me, but he found out I liked him and didn't do anything besides ignore me and act really mean towards me so apparently he didn't like me. But now one of my best friends likes him. And I'm pretty sure he likes her too. So I told my friend I didn't like him anymore, so it wouldn't cuase any fights or anything. But I still like him, so should I tell my friend I do? Or continue to like him and keep it to myself? Or find someone else I like and forget all about him? (If thats possible...)

Lizra · 02-15-2003, 06:00 PM

Oh Sylvee!...... You've already told her, you don't like him, and if there is something between them, what you say or do isn't going to matter anyway.

So, you did the right thing in the first place, by telling her you didn't like him. (By right thing, you have extracted yourself from a basically hopeless situation. You tried with him, it didn't work, now back off and save face.)

Forget about them, YOU need some good times, too! "Make it possible" Look at some other guys that have flirted with you in the past with a favorable new eye. It's pretty simple girls....Flirt with some fellows, see what response you get, pick one that acts interested. If none of your first batch of candidates respond, try a new batch. If you still get nothing, enjoy other things, (or) work on the beauty routine, (or) polish up your flirting techniques.

If having a boyfriend is just a "status" thing for school, don't worry about it, you don't really need a boyfriend! But, if you really think you want a boyfriend, then you just have to keep looking till the right one comes along. Don't get "stuck" on one that's not working out!

("Almost" old ladies

have lots of advice! )

Hanza · 02-15-2003, 06:07 PM

Good advice Lizra! I think i need a slap somtimes when it comes to wanting a boyf. I go to a girls school and the boys school is on the other side of the road.
Next Problem: My friend had her bday last sunday. I asked her if she was doing anything and she said no. However on monday everone in our group was raving about her party. I feel really hurt by this as i thought we were friends. Should i tell her how i feel or just drop it and her as a friend?

02-14-2003, 11:02 PM	#1
LuthienTinuviel protector of orphaned rabbits Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Kalamazoo... yes, its a real place! Posts: 1,236	the advice thread. ask a question, and recive an answer form the vast well of knowledge that is entmoot. here's my querey: there is a nice boy at my school, he is a pretty good friend, and eariler this year we almost had a thing, but then didn't see each other for a while, now im in another class with him, and.. hmm.. should i call him to say happy v-day? lord knows ive got nothing else to do besides this. __________________

02-14-2003, 11:10 PM	#2
Coney The Buddy Rabbit Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Trapped in the headlights.. Posts: 3,372	Yes you should.........shy kids get no soup __________________ Blessed are the cracked, they let the light in Beatallica

02-14-2003, 11:12 PM	#3
BeardofPants the Shrike Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: San Francisco, CA <3 Posts: 10,647	Life is short: go for it. My problem: should I eat that last bit of chocolate, or torture my boyfriend? __________________ "Binary solo! 0000001! 00000011! 0000001! 00000011!" ~ The Humans are Dead, Flight of the Conchords

02-14-2003, 11:16 PM	#5
Lizra Domesticated Swing Babe Join Date: May 2002 Location: Reality Posts: 5,340	Can't you make him call you? Eat the chocolate! I am. __________________ Happy Atheist Go Democrats!

02-14-2003, 11:53 PM	#6
LuthienTinuviel protector of orphaned rabbits Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Kalamazoo... yes, its a real place! Posts: 1,236	ya, your right, i should call him, but i was so busy trying to track down BoP's pic, that i forgot about this thread, and now it's mucho late-o to call him. hahah __________________

02-15-2003, 04:51 AM	#7
Andúril The Original Corruptor Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,881	This is not the thread for me.

02-15-2003, 08:33 AM	#8
Lady of Rohan Doughy Elf Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,006	Why Anduril? Because your to wise to need advice?

02-15-2003, 10:28 AM	#10
Artanis Greatest Elven woman of Aman Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Having way too much fun with Fëanor's 7 Posts: 4,285	Advice to Andúril (he needs it): If this is not the thread for you, then don't post in it __________________ --Life is hard, and then we die.

02-15-2003, 10:35 AM	#11
Andúril The Original Corruptor Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,881	Silence, mortal!

02-15-2003, 11:33 AM	#14
Hanza Woolly Jumper Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: In my field of paper flowers and candy clouds of lullaby Posts: 1,200	OK i have a problem: There is this guy who i know really fancies me(has told 2 of friends) he has tried to get my msn, fone number, email .etc. Problem is i dont like him. How can i tell him and what should i do? __________________ :: there's nothing comforting in change:: Why dont sheep shrink in the rain??

02-15-2003, 02:05 PM	#15
Lizra Domesticated Swing Babe Join Date: May 2002 Location: Reality Posts: 5,340	Tell those two friends he told, to tell him! __________________ Happy Atheist Go Democrats!

02-15-2003, 04:03 PM	#17
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	General Life Guidance "Life's a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death" __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

02-15-2003, 05:28 PM	#18
Sylvee Estel Elven Warrior Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Tennessee Posts: 115	I have a problem... I like this guy, and I have for a while now. I thought for a while that he might like me, but he found out I liked him and didn't do anything besides ignore me and act really mean towards me so apparently he didn't like me. But now one of my best friends likes him. And I'm pretty sure he likes her too. So I told my friend I didn't like him anymore, so it wouldn't cuase any fights or anything. But I still like him, so should I tell my friend I do? Or continue to like him and keep it to myself? Or find someone else I like and forget all about him? (If thats possible...) __________________ ~Sylvee

02-15-2003, 06:00 PM	#19
Lizra Domesticated Swing Babe Join Date: May 2002 Location: Reality Posts: 5,340	Oh Sylvee!...... You've already told her, you don't like him, and if there is something between them, what you say or do isn't going to matter anyway. So, you did the right thing in the first place, by telling her you didn't like him. (By right thing, you have extracted yourself from a basically hopeless situation. You tried with him, it didn't work, now back off and save face.) Forget about them, YOU need some good times, too! "Make it possible" Look at some other guys that have flirted with you in the past with a favorable new eye. It's pretty simple girls....Flirt with some fellows, see what response you get, pick one that acts interested. If none of your first batch of candidates respond, try a new batch. If you still get nothing, enjoy other things, (or) work on the beauty routine, (or) polish up your flirting techniques. If having a boyfriend is just a "status" thing for school, don't worry about it, you don't really need a boyfriend! But, if you really think you want a boyfriend, then you just have to keep looking till the right one comes along. Don't get "stuck" on one that's not working out! ("Almost" old ladies have lots of advice! ) __________________ Happy Atheist Go Democrats!

02-15-2003, 06:07 PM	#20
Hanza Woolly Jumper Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: In my field of paper flowers and candy clouds of lullaby Posts: 1,200	Good advice Lizra! I think i need a slap somtimes when it comes to wanting a boyf. I go to a girls school and the boys school is on the other side of the road. Next Problem: My friend had her bday last sunday. I asked her if she was doing anything and she said no. However on monday everone in our group was raving about her party. I feel really hurt by this as i thought we were friends. Should i tell her how i feel or just drop it and her as a friend? __________________ :: there's nothing comforting in change:: Why dont sheep shrink in the rain??

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