Aldarion and Erendis (UT) revisited

[Gordis]

Let us discuss again this wonderful story and all its aspects.

Yes, I know there was an old thread on the same subject HERE, but on 5 pages of it there are few serious posts - mostly banter.
I think a new thread is in order - with new participants. And in the 5 years that passed, even those who have given their opinion in the old thread (like Earniel) may have changed them.

How about discussing the following things?

• Please vote, who do you think was more to blame in Aldarion-Erendis dysfunctional marriage.
• Could something remedy to the situation and what exactly?
• What about the daughter, Ancalimë? Was she also to blame?
• What do you think of Aldarion's family (Tar-Meneldur and his queen)- did they act wisely towards their son and daughter-in-law?
• The story of Ulbar's family - nice contrast to Aldarion's isn't it?

+ please add anything you think important or relevant