stupid friend...

Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn · 02-10-2003, 02:34 PM

Does anyone know how to deal with a person who used to be your best friend, but doesnt talk to you anymore? Even tho you told her how you felt more than 2 times?

Evenstar1400 · 02-10-2003, 02:58 PM

hmmmmm..... maybe blackmail? jk! i wouldnt really know what to do.... i mean if your "friend" wont listen, then thats your "friend's" problem. okay im done now.

ps whats your website name???

Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn · 02-10-2003, 03:06 PM

yea.. *sigh* it just hurts

the name is morial lives...the link(or site thing) is in my sig...

markedel · 02-10-2003, 04:35 PM

It sucks when such things happen. It depends, sometimes you just have to deal with the heart, and move on.

What doesn't kill you will make you stronger, even if you don't realize it at first.

Elenka · 02-10-2003, 04:41 PM

Well...Black mail 'em, spread rumors about them, get all your friends to hate them too. Thar's what I would do if I had enough friends to create some real friend-power. But that's probably not the best way to handle a situation.

Consider sending a "final message" to the person saying that when she reads the message, friendship is officially over, and if she's got problems don't expect any sympathy or a shoulder to cry on from you. Again, maybe not the best method for peacefully ending a friendship.

***Sister Golden Hair*** · 02-10-2003, 05:26 PM

I'd say, just move on.

Lady of Rohan · 02-10-2003, 05:33 PM

Ignore her. Hang out with your other friends. My ex-best friend did that to me. She was my best friend and then suddenly she turned on me and started spreading rumors and sending me hate emails. I just ignored her and eventually she stopped but she still dislikes me. And the worst thing is that I didn't even do ANY THING to upset her!!! Oh well, what I was trying to say is ignore her.

Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn · 02-10-2003, 06:24 PM

yea...i tried that a little..but since alot of people are always with her, i feel like im unwanted alot..and when i told her, she got all mad.

Legolaslvr! · 02-10-2003, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Ignore her. Hang out with your other friends. My ex-best friend did that to me. She was my best friend and then suddenly she turned on me and started spreading rumors and sending me hate emails. I just ignored her and eventually she stopped but she still dislikes me. And the worst thing is that I didn't even do ANY THING to upset her!!! Oh well, what I was trying to say is ignore her.

Is that KP LOR???

Lady of Rohan · 02-10-2003, 07:48 PM

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Originally posted by Legolaslvr!
Is that KP LOR???

Yah. *starts muttering and throwing darts at KP's forhead*

Elven Archer · 02-11-2003, 12:02 AM

that's happened to me a few times. i had a best friend for most of 5th grade and then in 6th grade we'd sit together at lunch but we'd never have anything to say so eventually she started hanging out with the "popular" girls and then i didn't have any friends for awhile. she moved back to Georgia though.somehow i ended up having some friends. now that i'm homeschooled though i never get to see 'em and they never talk to me. right now they're on a Beta Club trip and none of them told me about it.
don't really know how to tell you to deal with it though. maybe you should just try to make some new friends.

Millane · 02-11-2003, 02:59 AM

meh i would say get over it... but if she is saying stuff then violence is the answer... my group of friends has had a problem with this kid called Lavender for a couple of years now and i will point out how we keep him in line:
well anyways it started a couple of years ago we were on a trip skiing and the like and he was in our group, anyway he cracked it over something and he threatened to piss on us during the night. Well a friend picked up a ski pole and basically said to him "you do that and i put this through your face... and you know i will" well the truth is he would have but it kept Lavender on his toes for the rest of the trip...

Elenka · 02-11-2003, 07:28 AM

Yes! I hate to agree, but the quick, easy, and mostly hassle free way of fixing things is to shove somehting sharp and pointy into someone's face as a potential threat. EVERYONE gets out of the way when I just lift my pencil, and the victim turns into a blob of jelly. It's actually kinda funny.

Lady of Rohan · 02-11-2003, 09:12 AM

Sounds like no one will evr bother you Elenka!

Elenka · 02-11-2003, 04:34 PM

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Originally posted by Lady of Rohan
Sounds like no one will evr bother you Elenka!

No one I know is stupid enough to bother me.

Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn · 02-11-2003, 06:31 PM

pointy sharp objects...hmm

***Sister Golden Hair*** · 02-11-2003, 07:07 PM

Shoving pointy sharp objects in someones face whether they deserve it or not, and threatening someone with violence is not going to solve your problem. If this person does not want to be your friend and is doing things to annoy you then avoid that person. By taking some of the advice that's been offered, you could end up either getting hurt, or in trouble in school or with the law. Is that vengeance factor so important that you would want to face that? It sounds like a done friendship. Ignore it and walk away for your own sake.

Lizra · 02-11-2003, 07:57 PM

Yep! The more you let on that it bothers you, the more you will be bothered! Screw her!

Move on, oh, and be cool!

That's really all that's left for you to do anyway. Don't waste your precious time worrying over it. Things change. I hate to say this....but, (people aren't very nice sometimes!)

.

Elenka · 02-11-2003, 08:20 PM

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Originally posted by Sister Golden Hair
Shoving pointy sharp objects in someones face whether they deserve it or not, and threatening someone with violence is not going to solve your problem. If this person does not want to be your friend and is doing things to annoy you then avoid that person. By taking some of the advice that's been offered, you could end up either getting hurt, or in trouble in school or with the law. Is that vengeance factor so important that you would want to face that? It sounds like a done friendship. Ignore it and walk away for your own sake.

Geez, SGH, no need to be so serious!! Just because I'm obsessed with inanimate objects of doom doesn't mean I'm going to take my own advice!!

eowyngirl14 · 02-11-2003, 08:58 PM

L_F_A, me thinks I know whom you speak of. She did the exact same thing ot me in 6th grade.

my advice: well... i don't really have any. I do however, have a death wish for that certain individual of whom I think we are talking. Then again, O could be totally off.

But if yuo want me to explain anything, just look at my little user title thingy!

02-10-2003, 02:34 PM	#1
Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn The Elven Queen Of All Pyros Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Im like a little bug stuck in the lamp...never going anywhere Posts: 795	stupid friend... Does anyone know how to deal with a person who used to be your best friend, but doesnt talk to you anymore? Even tho you told her how you felt more than 2 times? __________________ Would you judge my future based on what i did in the past? Procrastinators Unite!!!.....tomorrrow.... Kids in backseats cause accidents...accidents in backseats cause kids As long as there are tests..there will be prayers in school

02-10-2003, 02:58 PM	#2
Evenstar1400 Elven Warrior Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: In the inner depths of my lair. Posts: 421	hmmmmm..... maybe blackmail? jk! i wouldnt really know what to do.... i mean if your "friend" wont listen, then thats your "friend's" problem. okay im done now. ps whats your website name??? __________________ Treebeard: Hmm, you look like hobbits, smell like hobbits, feel like hobbits and sound like hobbits. You must be orcs!

02-10-2003, 03:06 PM	#3
Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn The Elven Queen Of All Pyros Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Im like a little bug stuck in the lamp...never going anywhere Posts: 795	yea.. sigh it just hurts the name is morial lives...the link(or site thing) is in my sig... __________________ Would you judge my future based on what i did in the past? Procrastinators Unite!!!.....tomorrrow.... Kids in backseats cause accidents...accidents in backseats cause kids As long as there are tests..there will be prayers in school

02-10-2003, 04:35 PM	#4
markedel 'Sober' Mullet Frosh Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Queen's Posts: 1,245	It sucks when such things happen. It depends, sometimes you just have to deal with the heart, and move on. What doesn't kill you will make you stronger, even if you don't realize it at first. __________________ "Earnur was a man like his father in valour, but not in wisdom"

02-10-2003, 04:41 PM	#5
Elenka The Negative Soul of Entmoot Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Middle Distance Posts: 651	Well...Black mail 'em, spread rumors about them, get all your friends to hate them too. Thar's what I would do if I had enough friends to create some real friend-power. But that's probably not the best way to handle a situation. Consider sending a "final message" to the person saying that when she reads the message, friendship is officially over, and if she's got problems don't expect any sympathy or a shoulder to cry on from you. Again, maybe not the best method for peacefully ending a friendship. __________________ W00T for the M00T!! War doesn't determine who is right - war determines who is left.

02-10-2003, 05:26 PM	#6
*Sister Golden Hair* Queen of Nargothrond Administrator Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Akron, Ohio - USA Posts: 7,121	I'd say, just move on. __________________ "Whither go you?" she said. "North away." he said: "to the swords, and the siege, and the walls of defence - that yet for a while in Beleriand rivers may run clean, leaves spring, and birds build their nests, ere Night comes." AboutNewJersey.com - New Jersey Travel and Tourism Guide

02-10-2003, 05:33 PM	#7
Lady of Rohan Doughy Elf Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,006	Ignore her. Hang out with your other friends. My ex-best friend did that to me. She was my best friend and then suddenly she turned on me and started spreading rumors and sending me hate emails. I just ignored her and eventually she stopped but she still dislikes me. And the worst thing is that I didn't even do ANY THING to upset her!!! Oh well, what I was trying to say is ignore her.

02-10-2003, 06:24 PM	#8
Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn The Elven Queen Of All Pyros Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Im like a little bug stuck in the lamp...never going anywhere Posts: 795	yea...i tried that a little..but since alot of people are always with her, i feel like im unwanted alot..and when i told her, she got all mad. __________________ Would you judge my future based on what i did in the past? Procrastinators Unite!!!.....tomorrrow.... Kids in backseats cause accidents...accidents in backseats cause kids As long as there are tests..there will be prayers in school

02-11-2003, 12:02 AM	#11
Elven Archer Elven Warrior Join Date: May 2002 Location: America! Posts: 480	that's happened to me a few times. i had a best friend for most of 5th grade and then in 6th grade we'd sit together at lunch but we'd never have anything to say so eventually she started hanging out with the "popular" girls and then i didn't have any friends for awhile. she moved back to Georgia though.somehow i ended up having some friends. now that i'm homeschooled though i never get to see 'em and they never talk to me. right now they're on a Beta Club trip and none of them told me about it. don't really know how to tell you to deal with it though. maybe you should just try to make some new friends. __________________ "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: 'it goes on'." ~robert frost

02-11-2003, 02:59 AM	#12
Millane The Dude Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: at the altar of my ego Posts: 1,685	meh i would say get over it... but if she is saying stuff then violence is the answer... my group of friends has had a problem with this kid called Lavender for a couple of years now and i will point out how we keep him in line: well anyways it started a couple of years ago we were on a trip skiing and the like and he was in our group, anyway he cracked it over something and he threatened to piss on us during the night. Well a friend picked up a ski pole and basically said to him "you do that and i put this through your face... and you know i will" well the truth is he would have but it kept Lavender on his toes for the rest of the trip... __________________ Ill heal your wounds, ill set you free, Last edited by Millane : 02-11-2003 at 03:03 AM.

02-11-2003, 07:28 AM	#13
Elenka The Negative Soul of Entmoot Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Middle Distance Posts: 651	Yes! I hate to agree, but the quick, easy, and mostly hassle free way of fixing things is to shove somehting sharp and pointy into someone's face as a potential threat. EVERYONE gets out of the way when I just lift my pencil, and the victim turns into a blob of jelly. It's actually kinda funny. __________________ W00T for the M00T!! War doesn't determine who is right - war determines who is left.

02-11-2003, 09:12 AM	#14
Lady of Rohan Doughy Elf Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,006	Sounds like no one will evr bother you Elenka!

02-11-2003, 06:31 PM	#16
Legolas_Frodo_Aragorn The Elven Queen Of All Pyros Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Im like a little bug stuck in the lamp...never going anywhere Posts: 795	pointy sharp objects...hmm __________________ Would you judge my future based on what i did in the past? Procrastinators Unite!!!.....tomorrrow.... Kids in backseats cause accidents...accidents in backseats cause kids As long as there are tests..there will be prayers in school

02-11-2003, 07:07 PM	#17
*Sister Golden Hair* Queen of Nargothrond Administrator Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Akron, Ohio - USA Posts: 7,121	Shoving pointy sharp objects in someones face whether they deserve it or not, and threatening someone with violence is not going to solve your problem. If this person does not want to be your friend and is doing things to annoy you then avoid that person. By taking some of the advice that's been offered, you could end up either getting hurt, or in trouble in school or with the law. Is that vengeance factor so important that you would want to face that? It sounds like a done friendship. Ignore it and walk away for your own sake. __________________ "Whither go you?" she said. "North away." he said: "to the swords, and the siege, and the walls of defence - that yet for a while in Beleriand rivers may run clean, leaves spring, and birds build their nests, ere Night comes." AboutNewJersey.com - New Jersey Travel and Tourism Guide

02-11-2003, 07:57 PM	#18
Lizra Domesticated Swing Babe Join Date: May 2002 Location: Reality Posts: 5,340	Yep! The more you let on that it bothers you, the more you will be bothered! Screw her! Move on, oh, and be cool! That's really all that's left for you to do anyway. Don't waste your precious time worrying over it. Things change. I hate to say this....but, (people aren't very nice sometimes!) . __________________ Happy Atheist Go Democrats!

02-11-2003, 08:58 PM	#20
eowyngirl14 i don't know what i am talking about either, so don't ask Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 1,353	L_F_A, me thinks I know whom you speak of. She did the exact same thing ot me in 6th grade. my advice: well... i don't really have any. I do however, have a death wish for that certain individual of whom I think we are talking. Then again, O could be totally off. But if yuo want me to explain anything, just look at my little user title thingy! __________________ 'The coming of dawn is ever the hope to the heart of men' -Aragorn 'Then I will die as one of them' -Aragorn TTT movie “They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little safety deserve neither liberty nor safety” - Benjamin Franklin arms are made for hugging avatar from the avatar shop! made by Eowyn, Lady of Rohan

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